Kiran finds time every day to come over and visit with us. He is the manager of the Fish Tail Lodge, a hotel named after the predominant mountain of the area here (Machupucuara, 5980 meters) that looks like a fish’s tail. More than once, he takes us to his two room home to have dinner. Kiran’s family lives in a cement apartment building that houses a number of large families. One room is where his three children sleep but in the other is the Kitchen, study and parents bedroom. There is one bathroom for the entire building that doubles as cloths wash room, bathroom and shower.
Tamara and I sit on the parent’s bed and talk to Kiran who is seated on a small stool. His wife turns on the propane to a small burner unit and in no time makes us the rice, vegetables and chicken that make up Dal Bhat. Kiran is 34 and has been baptized for 3 years now. The power flickers and he says that when he was 15 he remembers when Pokhara first got electricity. It was only one hour a week but in a few years it was two hours a day. Now they have electricity every day but Wednesday. He asks if we have electricity every day where we live.
After dinner he takes us next door to visit another Jehovah Witness family. The young couple has just gotten married. They both are pioneers, which means that they dedicate 90 hours a month to proselytizing, but lately the brother’s health has degraded. We visit for a while about being married and the changes it brings. When we head back to eat dinner, Kiran says “We don’t think that He will be alive for much longer. The doctors say that he has a large lump on his kidney but the operation to remove it will cost 650,000 rupees. That is quite a sum especially for a pioneer. ” Back at Kiran’s home we chat well into the night about life in Oregon, Nepal and our hopeful life in the future Paradise.
The meetings are fun but they are starting to become boring as we only know about 20 words in Nepali. We are able to answer in English but only a few of the Brothers and Sisters know what we say. The small kingdom hall is very clean; it seats about 45 people on hard metal fold up chairs. The bible they use is a large King James Version, as they don’t have a New World Translation in their language yet. Everyone is incredibly nice to us, as nice as they can be and not speak the same language. We practice our few words of Nepali as they fumble with English. They are all drawn to my pictures of home but soon they and we lose their novelty.
Strangely, the men and women rarely sit by one another, even when they are married. In fact the men almost never stand and talk with women, even in groups. I ask Kiran why, although he sits with his wife, and he thinks for a long time. In the end all he can come up with is “Our way is just our way.” These social differences are entertaining at times. As an example, the Nepali men, Jehovah Witness or not, will hold hands and express friendship with other men much more readily then the women do with other women. Being an American male, it takes me a while to become comfortable walking arm in arm with other men.
On our last day in Pokhara we get up super early and climb up a 600 meter hill to watch the sunrise. We spend a few hours drawing the scenes around us with pencil in our sketchbooks. Our drawings seam to get better all the time. Soon the morning is gone and we hurry back to town as we are catching the bus to the southern part of Nepal. The Jungle town of Chitwan, famous for their wild Tigers and Rhinos, is our next destination.




There is no real path across the gravel, so we end up following a train of small donkeys. The small animals wear headdresses of bright feathers and small bells. On the neck of each donkey is a large bell that rings out loudly and can be heard from miles away. Two woven sacks, filled with potatoes or apples, are carried by each animal. I ask Kauncha where the mule train driver is and he tells us the driver walks many hours behind the mule train. “The Mules know the way”, he says.
As the morning changes into day, the wind picks up. Suddenly a dust cloud, a hundred feet high, rises up and washes over us. The wind whips at our faces and our stumbling slows to a crawl. More than a few times we each fall, completely blinded by the wind and grit. Mule trains wait for no man and so quickly fades away into the distance. We stagger on stiff ankles and squint with blinded eyes for three hours. When the wind finally stops assaulting us we shake the sand from our hair and look around. We have veered off course but are still going in the right direction. In the distance a small town awaits our arrival.




A stone paved road divides the town. In front of every home, is a post provided for tying up your horse. At a small store a couple of horses are tied up in front of a building and I look around for the cowboys. It looks just like a cowboy movie. The only difference is that in this area, everyone is Buddhist. Being a Buddhist town, a large arch protects the entrance to the town. Inside the arch is a collection of prayer wheels on each side. As a thin man enters the arch behind us, he spins each wheel.



Most of the homes are made of mud and bamboo with straw for roofs. Bare foot children sweep dirt patios and play with large longhaired dogs, as ancient women weave bright cloth. I ask Kauncha where the men are and he says that they are in the hills chopping wood, catching fish or snaring animals.





We say our good byes and head back toward town. Later that night after a shower, Nabin takes Tamara, Turo and I back to the Presiding Overseers home. His name is Karri and he answers the door to his three-story concrete home with dark sunglasses and a face like a State Cop. He is stone faced as he welcomes us in to his home. Nabin translates into English for a while, but then gives up. We drink tea, eat some stale crackers and smile at his plump wife. She knows five words in English and I know maybe ten Nepali words. All of us feel very uncomfortable in the very quiet room. Our pink plastic chairs squeak on the thin green plastic carpet. Black and white photos hang on the painted concrete walls. In this type of situation, I have an ace up my sleeve, pictures of my family. I show her pictures of my parents, Tamara’s brothers and of the Pacific Ocean. She says something to Nabin and he says that she wants to know if all Americans are giants.” I nod my head “yes” and she again examines the photo’s. I find myself becoming uncomfortable when she sees the picture of my Kingdom Hall. It is so extravagant compared to Nepal’s Kingdom Halls. She leaves to finish making the meal that we are apparently invited for. Karri’s home, as all buildings in Nepal, is built with only concrete and re-bar. The floor, walls and ceilings are a seamless flow of painted concrete. We didn’t bring one of our new Yak sweaters, so when the sunsets we try to hide our shivering. Wood is scarce in Asia and electricity is expensive, so indoor heat is very rare.
Tibetans are very common in Nepal. Nepali people sometimes dislike Tibetans because they have a talent of opening business and make money. Tibetans do not believe in the caste system, so are freed from the idea of Predestination. They believe that with education and insight you can become anything, even a god. The Hindu faith really hobbles its practicers by telling them that they are only as good as their tribe or caste. It causes most traditional Hindus to not learn anything that is not needed to follow the profession of their caste. The literacy rate for Hindus is in the 40% but Buddhist literacy rate is in the 80%. Moreover, most of the Buddhist know two or three languages.








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